10 habits of loving couple
1. Say "I Love You" at least once a day. Your partner does
need to hear the words.
2. Kiss good-bye & hello. Throw in a hug while you're at it.
3. "Date" your partner for the rest of your lives. Treat your
Partner even better than when you were dating... Remember that
You are sweethearts: open her doorstraighten his tiehold out
Her chairhold hands when you're walking together
4. Don't sweat the small stuff. You can let his/her bad habits
Bother you to distraction. .. Or you can accept them, and work
Around them. Does she leave the cap off the toothpaste? Buy
Separate tubes... Does he leave clothes lying around? Ignore
Them, or pick them up, remembering just how much he does for
you in other ways. Or, make it easier for your partner to
Satisfy you... buy several clothes hampers and keep them Handy.
5. Concentrate on the positive. Instead of thinking about the
Ways that s/he lets you down think of all the positive things
About your partner that drew you to them in the first place.
6. Take a breather when you're mad. Don't try to talk when
Either of you are angry. Take a few minutes to walk around the
Block, lay down, just get away from each other so you can
Regroup. A short break will allow you both to stay on track
And discuss what's bothering you instead of accidentally
Making personal insults that you will regret later.
7. Don't use your partner's secrets or weaknesses against
Them... ever! What may seem insignificant, trivial, or cute to
You may be serious to your partner. Recognize what is
Important to your partner, and don't discuss it with your
Friends, mother, his family, anyone! And certainly don't throw
The words back at them in an argument. A loving relationship
Is one of the most intimate and trusting that anyone can have.
8. Think about your partner first. If both of you do this,
Then you can't help but win! Say "yes" to your partner as
Often as possible... go to that sports event with him, get him
Out on that golf course because he loves golf, make life
Easier for your partner, and hopefully they will do the same for you!
9. R-E-S-P-E-C- T your partner. Don't badmouth your partner to
Anyone! When you talk about your partner, let your respect and
Love shine through.
10. Find a way to regroup together every day. Discover what
Works well for you both... eat a meal together, meet for happy
Hour drinks, skip Leno at night and just lay in bed in the
Dark, take a walk around the block, etc. You can even mix
Things up and vary your routine. If one of you is traveling,
Call home at night just to hear their voice. The point is to
Spend time together daily, just talking or breathing the same
Air, feeling connected. |
